Monday, April 22, 2013

Green Monster

Let's talk about something that's been on my mind lately; the green monster. I'm not talking about an energy drink, a smoothie, or the imaginary scamp hiding under your bed. I'm talking about jealousy.

The problem with being on the world wide web, is things can be portrayed and skewed in any way a person wants. Behind the anonymity of the web, someone can make their life look like the most glamorous thing on this earth, even if they're living in a world of hurt and confusion. Because the internet can be this way, I all too often read comments saying, "I'm so jealous!" "Your outfit is the cutest! I'm soooo jealous!!" "You have a new car? Jealous!" "You got invited to that party?! JEALOUS!!!" Jealous. Stop it with the jealous-ness. Sure, we're all guilty of that little envy bug that comes and bites us every once in a while but have you ever stopped and thought about the origin of that jealousy root? Have you ever stopped and tried to think about all of the marvelous things happening in your life? I love this quote, it sure puts things in perspective. "Jealousy comes from counting others' blessings instead of our own."

Sit down, think about the things in your life that are wonderful and I'm sure after a while you'll begin to appreciate what you do have in life, instead of lusting after what you don't. It is hard to flip that switch, the switch from jealousy to appreciation; I know, I've been there. It is possible though. 

I know we're not all "bros" but I think we can all benefit from this brotip. Jealousy really is an ugly trait; it diminishes bright personalities and turns countenances into something dark. So, be supportive of someone in their endeavors. Praise them for their accomplishments, and comfort them in their times of need. Take off that green mask of envy, and look at your own life with fresh eyes; eyes full of appreciation for all that you do have. Life is sweeter that way, I promise. 


Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Conference 2013

This past weekend, I had the opportunity to listen to the leaders of my Church. They gave us great counsel and fed my faith tremendously. I always look forward to listening to their inspired words. One talk that stood out to me distinctly was Elder L. Whitney Clayton's talk on marriage. You can watch it here. He talked about marriage, and ways to strengthen and uphold a marriage. In today's world, it seems as though marriage is thought of as just a thing that can be tossed to the side once one is "done" with it. I feel that it is so sad to hear people mistreat marriage in this way; as though it is trash, tossed into the wind. My favorite quote of his was "Marriage is a gift from God to us; the quality of our marriages is a gift from us to Him." 

I hope that I will always remember to treat my marriage as a gift from God, and show him my appreciation of that marriage by the way I treat it in return. What a sweet and simple reminder for all of us. 


Friday, April 5, 2013

Body Swim Guide

We're taking a different spin on "Friday's Find" today. Summer is literally here, or just around the corner, and with that brings swimsuit shopping. Cue anxiety attack. Does anyone else loathe finding the right swimsuit? It's not a fun task, but I firmly believe that when you know your body type, and what looks good on your body type; the task can become a little less daunting. So, let's jump right into it.

First figure out your body shape. Usually, the most common are Athletic, Straight, Pear, Apple, and Curvy.

Athletic: Most of the time this shape consists of broad shoulders, muscular legs, and more narrow hips.
Swim to look for: Suits with embellishment that will draw attention to your hips, away from your broad shoulders. Stay away from boy cut bottoms and shapeless tops. Soften your chest area with a little bit of gathering or padding, but stay away from bandeau bikini tops.

Find it here: ASOS Target ASOS

Straight: Have very few curves, hips and waist measure about the same size.
Swim to look for: Basically, anything can go for this body type. You can fake curves though by looking for ruffles around the chest or hip area. Look for tops with cups, it will help add curves as well. Avoid bandeau tops and sporty bottoms.

Find it here: Old Navy ASOS Target

Pear: Your bottom and hip area are larger than your shoulders and chest. 
Swim to look for: Enhance your upper figure with ruffles, molded cups, or bright prints. Conceal your lower half with boy short bottoms, full coverage briefs, or hipsters. Avoid bold prints on bottom.

Find it here: Kohl's DownEast JCPenney

Apple: Your trouble area is your stomach. Bust and stomach area are wider than your hips.
Swim to look for: Ruching and ruffles are your best friend, it can help conceal problem spots. Empire waist swimwear will help diminish your stomach area.

Find it here: Target Macy's Target 

Curvy: Pretty much you've got that hourglass figure. Larger chest, equally sized hips, and a smaller natural waist. 
Swim to look for: Support, support support. String bikini's are not your friend. Look for underwire, molded cups, and solid colors. Smaller prints are okay, but try to stay away from big busy prints. Avoid ruffles around the chest. 

Find it here: Target Nordstrom Target

And there you have it! Your complete guide to picking out the perfect swimsuit. I hoped this helps, happy shopping! 


Thursday, April 4, 2013

Easter Weekend

Because Maddison was sick, our weekend was pretty low-key. We spent most of our time at home, and some time with family when a non-fevered baby permitted. One thing we did escape for though was Saturday's event, The Rogue Runner. Dallin and his brothers-in-law did a 10K mud obstacle race, and all with matching shirts too; labeling their team "Band of Brothers". I was so upset, due to my dumb "smart" phone leading me to the wrong place; I got lost, and missed their finish line crossing by about 10 minutes. But I was so proud of him for doing and completing the race. 

Easter Sunday was spent together, at church, and all with a feverish baby. We managed to snap a few traditional Easter outfit pictures, and I'm glad we did. I have so much love for this little family of mine. 

It was a good weekend, with some fun memories made. Hooray for times spent together. 


Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Sick baby

Holy cow, it's so crazy how time flies when you're not really paying attention. My poor girl has been sick all weekend/week and it is the saddest thing ever. High fevers, stomach bug, and throw into the mix teeth trying to bud, and you've got a cranky little girl; and a momma that is trying to keep it together. The one good thing about her being sick though is she always wants to be held, and often that makes for some great snuggle time. 

Being a mom is by far the hardest thing I've ever done, and it's also the most rewarding. I love to capture these little moments to remind me during the hard times why it's so worth it. I love my little bean!

Easter updates and an actual Friday's Find coming this week.